Why is writing like golf?

You might think the comparison starts and ends with the fact that, for some folks, both activities are downright snooze-worthy to watch (my apologies to die-hard golf fans and anyone who keeps the Golf Channel humming in the background). But to me, the real similarity runs deeper—a whole lot of novice golfers and new writers believe they can perfect their craft entirely on their own.

Both are really a competition with yourself. The golfer works to shave down their handicap, and the writer strives for personal milestones—landing an agent, finishing a novel, snagging that dream publication. And in both worlds, success demands a steady diet of practice, patience, and revision.

What people often miss when they look at elite golfers or celebrated authors is that nobody gets there alone. Behind every smooth swing and every polished paragraph is a long trail of feedback, coaching, and a willingness to adjust. Even prodigies don’t make it to the top without mentors, guides, or a whole team of smart folks pointing out what they can’t yet see.

I’ve known plenty of would-be authors who set out to write a book or short story completely solo. Many hand their finished draft to friends or family members who respond with warm, encouraging praise. And while I genuinely applaud their enthusiasm, here’s the gentle truth:

Without a professional to point out ways to improve, they don’t know what they don’t know

Just like the new golfer who sinks a couple of lucky putts and thinks they’re ready for Augusta, a new writer can land on a fresh idea that sparks excitement among people they know. That early encouragement is wonderful—and necessary—but it is not a sign that your swing is ready for the pro tour or that your draft is ready for an agent’s inbox. Find a knowledgeable team that can help you perfect your craft. This could include another writer, a critique group, or a writing coach.

My advice? If you want to excel—whether on the course or on the page—be ready to learn, to dig deep, and to commit. Just know that the game gets a whole lot more fun once you do.